Ok guys, for the sake of full transparency I will let you all know what happened.
Firstly our team of 4 has dropped down to a team of 2. 2 of the other devs helping me quit the project after trying to force the release on the 20th. It wasn't quite ready, so there was a sudo-corporate coup.
Secondly the netcode we had written to make servers for this game. Has been depreciated. We are busting our arses to rewrite it all. hopefully with a bit of luck we should be right in 2 weeks time from now.
Sorry guys but it will be worth the wait.