attempt at bugfix,, actual bug.
for some undiscoverable reason, "first selected" is not working on main menu, meaning gamepad and keyboard are not able to select buttons. ,,, this fix enables it to work , but is not an appropriate programming design, as it is wonky to work, and counts as a "bug workaround". There is no issue in the editor, but in the build it wasn't working correctly.
If you are unable to arrow out of the text-field for playername,, press escape to reset the button selected.