Frequent problems and good Tip to know
1. If the controller is not recognized, check if the default device of steam vr is openxr.(if using SteamVr)
2. If you don't want to hear the other person's voice
If you reduce the microphone to zero, you can't hear the other person's voice.
3. if you want to do it with a friend
Make a secret room and let your friend know the code
4. If it's a bug or a problem with the play
https://discord.gg/tNthvWWnPw
If you tell me on the Discord server, I can resolve it quickly.